Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Love, Love, Love and Love

In my recent struggle against letting go and forgetting, i have finally achieved the peak of making things go if they are not meant for me. With the help of some good friends, Grace, Sham, Myla, Ben, Dana, MM, Ming, Riz, Guy, Mariz, Jem and among others, i was brought back to the reality and was finally placed right on the grounds of practicality and intelligence. I don't know if this post is fair enough for all to read but i just can't help but celebrate to the top of heart how i endured those sleepless nights when i thought the entire world was going against me. I looked at several sides of the story and found out that truly, LOVE is LOVE and it can never be the other way around, or it never be the spark of a little of it. Love is entirely Love.

So, as a celebration of freedom, here, i am jotting down my mostly-read-and-reflected thoughts i got from books and text messages. It's all about love.

To love is to be vulnerable. The more deeply one loves, the more deeply is one liable to be wounded. Few persons really care to love because few dare to be wounded.
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I have always thought letting you go would have to mean the biggest hurt i have to get along with my life. But you know what? Loving you has made me discover the strength i possess in enduring pain and letting go of things not meant for me. I know i am better off with just moving on without you and finally be happy. Sure it hurt at first but certainly it would be of greater pain if i still held on and played your game.
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Not every seemingly good thing is good for you. Not every beautiful thing is right. Not all relationships are worth keeping. Nor every person you love worth it. So when you lose something or somebody, maybe you are not meant to keep them or you are not for them to keep.
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Real love never hurries. It doesn't force things to fall in haste and rush. Love is time. Love is space. If two hearts are distant yet love beats a whisper, it is not the end. It's only a breeding of a well-deserved affection, challenged by loss, prepared by acceptance and strengthened by what is called TRUE LOVE THAT WAITS.
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-More love thoughts later! :P

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